Numerology/Astrology for 2/12/15
Today is the number 4. Finding balance even as Mercury is in
its shadow has been interesting. There were moments when I just had to laugh
the last few days and roll my eyes and say, “Mercury Retrograde!” Now I know
that some of you will never notice or care when Mercury is going retrograde but
my chart with some very dominant Gemini and Virgo, well let’s just say, “It can
get interesting”. Computer snafus, delayed clients, redoing videos for my Wild Women
Symposium, and just a barrage of ongoing small glitches. So I am grateful that
it is slowly ending over the next two weeks. The Jupiter/Uranus trine is making
some wonderful positive, surprising, and sudden changes, which some of you will
feel grateful for and others might feel a bit put off. Regardless, it is a day
to practice clear communication (the 4) and be in balance regardless of what
Mercury at throws you. The Moon continues its transit of Scorpio for almost
half of the day, until 11:48 AM EST, and all that is hidden, taboo, secret, or
suppressed interests us. The Moon transits Sagittarius from 11:48 AM forward,
and you will begin to look outside of yourself for answers. A Sagittarius Moon
is enthusiastic, forward-looking, and adventurous. However, the Moon's
alignment with Saturn brings you back down to earth. There can be some need to
put a curb on your enthusiasm if you’re not considering what's practical and
feasible.
~Suzanne Wagner~
Quote
An affectionate disposition
not only calms the mind, it’s good for our physical well-being too. On the
other hand, hatred, jealousy and fear disturb our peace of mind, they make us
agitated physically and mentally. Such agitation is disturbing, which shows
that the need for peace of mind is in our blood.
~Dalai Lama~
Bog
Being loving is the goal in life. Love from an authentic
place that is calm and genuine is a beautiful thing to be a part of. But being
loving when you feel strained internally, when you are feeling desperate, or
you are trying to fulfill your own identity of a “rescuer” actually causes
suffering within you. Coming from a place of needing to save others or coming
from a place that your own needs have to be overlooked because of another
person’s desperation is not healthy. Boundaries are essential tools to help you
learn to support from a place that is healthy rather than a constant, chronic
override of energy which in turn not only perpetuates a feeling that you do not
deserve to be happy but that is also not allowing karmic lessons to be learned
in sometimes a harsh manner. Those people who are empathic and deeply sensitive
are very vulnerable to those people who are carrying a form of dysfunction and
neediness. But what all of us have to learn is that no one else can actually
carry us. We have to learn to love ourself and take responsibility for our
actions. When we manipulate others to do things for us and we do not learn how
to do it ourself then we are forever insecure and deep inside we know that we
are missing something and therefore incapable or lacking in some area. That is
a horrible feeling. Sensitive people feel that other person’s suffering and if
can become so painful that they become determined to shift that reality by
helping. But there is that old saying that everyone has heard a hundred times,
“You can feed a person with a fish but what is better is to teach them how to
fish so that then they will never be hungry.” The same applies here. Each of us
is here to learn how to become self-sufficient. Struggles teach us to value and
love ourself. Challenges teach us determination and confidence. Earth lessons
become embodied and that makes us feel safe on the planet and give us the
knowing that we can overcome challenges and find the way through the problems.
So for all you “rescuers” out there, stop. Step back. And allow the lessons to
come to those who you love. You cannot save everyone. You can show them the
door but they have to walk through. If you chronically choose to carry those
you love through the door over and over again, you will become exhausted and break
down. And even then they will still have to figure out how to go through the
door. Stop now and let things fall. Let the realness of the hard earth lessons
come forward. Hold the place of compassion and faith that they will find the
doorway eventually. It is not your job to habitually rescue those who cannot
swim but keep jumping into the water without a life jacket. Be the beacon of
hope, faith, and love. Believe that something and someone stronger than you is
guiding them. We want to save others from the harsh lessons of our life but we
cannot. Life has to teach certain lessons. Trust life. It knows the way and let
yourself find a new type of freedom.
~Suzanne Wagner~
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